my kinda soul

You Are a Peacemaker Soul

You strive to please others and compromise anyway you can.War or conflict bothers you, and you would do anything to keep the peace.You are a good mediator and a true negotiator.Sometimes you do too much, trying so hard to make people happy. While you keep the peace, you tend to be secretly judgmental.You lose respect for people who don't like to both give and take.On the flip side, you've got a graet sense of humor and wit.You're always dimplomatic and able to give good advice. Souls you are most compatible with: Warrior Soul, Hunter Soul and Visionary Soul

What Kind of Soul Are You?

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Two Sundays ago (talk about an overdue entry), my husband & I went out with 2 of our friends from SFC then out of the blue, one of them asked my hubby on how does he feel whenever he sees his ex-girlfriends (because she has not seen her ex since they broke up).

Good question, after a few minutes we saw my husband's ex. Well, I saw her first and told my husband that his ex is there. I know he does not really want to greet her but just to satisfy my curiosity he greeted her. You see, this ex of his was his 2nd longest relationship after me (they were together for 3 years) and is or rather was his neighbor. We always see her in their village chapel when we hear mass there but they totally ignore each other. I've seen his other ex's but he is not aloof with them as he is with this one (well, I understand why). Then we heard that her family moved to Canada, I told him "Sayang, I thought that there will come a time when they can talk again & that I'll be introduced to her". I know...I know... I sound pathetic but try to understand that I was never in a relationship until Kokoy came along so that means I never had an ex. I don't understand all those after-relationship things. Siguro just to satisfy me, he greeted her. We were surprised to see her (since we thought she's already in Canada), she explained that she had to come back to take the bar exam this September and when she passes she'll have an option to stay here. I felt relieved afterwards and I was able to give her a genuine smile which she returned. I even told my husband that I think she's nice which he somewhat disagrees to, hehe.

I took the above test awhile ago and found out that I have a soul of a peacemaker. It dawned to me that I may not really be curious about my husband's ex or all those after-relationship things. I may really have a peacemaker soul which has been bugging me for the longest time since my husband has a drift with his ex. Back in college, my once very happy barkada suddenly had a faction. I did not side with anybody (three of us actually were in the middle) not because I want to be on the safe side but because I wanted all of them to stop the nonsense childish fight they're into. We (the 3 of us) tried to restore the peace in our barkada but I guess we were not that successful since the once happy friendship we once had did not go back on how it was before. I must admit that I was really disappointed. Oh yes, we were able to let them shake hands and all that but as I said, things were not how it used to be. Oh well, that's life... you gotta accept that change is the only constant thing in this world. And to add to that, I hate the feeling of having an enemy or even just a friction with someone. In my current job, it's hard to do that. Since I am in charge of implementing the rules of the company, you can't really help it if people will take it against you whenever you try to discipline them. God knows how I try to reach out to them in a way that won't hurt their feelings but you really can't please everyone. At the end of the day, I just say to myself that it's all part of the job so I won't really get affected. I took Psychology to understand people's behavior better, it may be a way of that soul to complement what it really ought to do, be at peace with everyone by knowing their psyche or their well-being. Well, it's a good way to promote world peace, don't you think? Hahaha!